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在朋友家看到的类似的十条，感动不已，希望爱中的人可以看完并做到。
Ten Biblical Rules for a Happy Marriage
By Steve Arterburn
New Life Ministries
A quick look at the Scriptures will show you what true happiness in a marriage really means.
Never bring up mistakes of the past.
决不要纠缠于过往的错误。
Stop criticizing others or it will come back on you. If you forgive others, you will be forgiven (Luke 6:37).
Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
忽略全世界也不要忽略彼此
And how do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul in the process? (Mark 8:36)
Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
不要带着未解决的争执上床
And don't sin by letting anger gain control over you. Don't let the sun go down while you are still angry (Ephesians 4:26).
At least once a day, try to say something complimentary to your spouse.
每天至少一次称赞你的爱人
Gentle words bring life and health; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit (Proverbs 15:4).
Never meet without an affectionate welcome.
每次都在充满爱意中相见
Kiss me again and again, your love is sweeter than wine (Song of Solomon 1:2).
"For richer or poorer" - rejoice in every moment that God has given you together.
贫穷或富有，分享上帝给你们的一切
A bowl of soup with someone you love is better than steak with someone you hate (Proverbs 15:17).
If you have a choice between making yourself or your mate look good, choose your mate. 如果你必须在你和你的伴侣之间挑选一个使之更体面，挑你的伴侣
Do not withhold good from those who deserve it when it's in your power to help them (Proverbs 3:27).
If they're breathing, your mate will eventually offend you. Learn to forgive.
只要有呼吸，你的伴侣就会冒犯你，学会原谅
I am warning you, if another believer sins, rebuke him; then if he repents, forgive him. Even if he wrongs you seven times a day and each time turns again and asks forgiveness, forgive him (Luke 17:3,4).
Don't use faith, the Bible, or God as a hammer.
这句我没明白，好象是说不要用忠诚、圣经、上帝的名义去批评你的伴侣。上帝给我们这些是让我们去拯救，意思是自己要先做到吧。
God did not send His Son into the world to condemn it, but to save it (John 3:17).
Let love be your guidepost.
让爱做你前行的路标。
Love is patient and kind.
爱是耐心和和善，不是嫉妒、炫耀、骄傲或者无理。
Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged (1 Cor. 13:4,5). |
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