发信人: y2ghijacker(一生好求)
整理人: fredrink(2001-01-19 16:50:20), 站内信件
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Preface:Many translation skills were used in th following essay,read
it seriously you'll learn much from that!
当你觉得对方对你有好感时，其实是你对对方有好感。当你觉得对方讨厌你时，其实是你讨厌对方。这种反射作用常常会产生。
我们喜欢接近那些对我们有好感的人。我们为什么认为对方对我们有好感，甚至喜欢我们呢?那是因为我们喜欢他。
初次见面的时候，我们跟某人一见如故。回家以后，我们在想，这个人好像很喜欢我!事实上，是我们春心荡漾，喜欢了对方。
喜欢和爱，也是反射作用。所以，爱上不爱自己的人，毕竟是比较少数的。感受不到爱，却仍然去付出爱，可以说是傻，也可以说是伟大。
当我们不喜欢某人的时候，我们会骄傲地说：第一次见面时，已经不喜欢他!也许，这只是一个自我保护的方法。当感到对方不喜欢自己时，我们先下手为强。
对方不是很投契的类型，他更好像看不起我，那么，我们会反过来说：我根本看不起他，甚至有些讨厌他呢!
我们常不明白自己为什么无缘无故喜欢或恼恨一个人。也许，那并不是没有原因的。我们喜欢或恼恨对方，也是反射作用。
When you feel somebody is showing fondness of you, you are actually fond of the person. When you find somebody annoying,
actually you dislike the person. Such things are common occurrences.
We are likely drawn to those who have a good opinion of us. Why
do we think the person is well disposed towards us or even like us?
That's because we like the person.
At the first encounter we talk with each other like old friends.
When back at home we ask ourselves if the person means to like us. It
seems so. But the fact is that we have been so fascinated by him as
to take a fancy to him.
Liking or love should be reciprocal. Falling in love with a
person who doesn't love oneself is something rare. To keep on loving
a person who does not requite one's love is either foolish or great.
One says scornfully to show one's dislike that one has never
liked him since the very beginning. Actually one is striking first to
gain the advantage when one finds oneself in disfavour--a means of
self protection in essence.
If the other party is not congenial or seemingly holds one in
contempt, one would contradict by saying that one has all along looked down on him, or even hate the sight of him!
Often we wonder why we like or hate a person without reason.
Perhaps it is not so. There is a reason. The reason can be traced
back to ourselves.
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